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LETTER: Urgent plea for overhaul of broken Family Court System

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Dear Mr. Prime Minister and Minister,

I urgently need your help in fixing what is supposed to be our family court. I have several concerns, which I am sure many men out here share or are going through the same situation.

Many of us men are suffering in silence, and it seems that no one cares or is taking us seriously. As I write this letter, my heart aches, and my eyes are puffy with tears because for years, I have been experiencing serious injustice in this so-called family court.

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Firstly, I strongly feel that the magistrate harbors a bias against men for some reason only God knows. She tends to be more on the women’s side and forgets that we men are humans too with feelings.

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I believe it’s time to either have two magistrates, retrain the present one, or appoint another one because she doesn’t make sense in her judgments. She is too gullible to many tricks that these devious, malicious, evil baby mothers try, and she can’t see when they are playing her.

Secondly, she makes rules that if the baby mothers don’t grant access to the father, they either go to jail for 6 months to a year or pay a fine. However, this seems to be an order she puts there for show.

I have taken my baby mothers to court several times for access, and not once have they been punished.

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This lack of consequences encourages them to repeat the offense and makes them feel untouchable, even taunting their baby fathers, as they know they will get away with it.

Thirdly, if a baby mother thinks she is the only parent and denies access, that mother should feed her child herself and stop punishing the father.

It doesn’t make sense for a father to provide for a child he doesn’t know is dead or alive because he can’t see them or have a say in their upbringing.

Fourthly, I think the judge is trying to emulate Madea’s Family Reunion but needs to understand that not every family can be fixed. Some families need to be broken apart and go their separate ways. I suggest she starts watching Judge Judy.

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Fifthly, the law about continuing to financially support a child past 18 doesn’t make any sense, especially when these young adults are rude, disrespectful, working, having boyfriends, and some moms just put their kids into further education to continue extracting money from the fathers.

If baby mothers file a warrant, they quickly come for us. However, when we file for access, they don’t go after them, even when they make up stupid excuses and involve the kids in lying. It’s the magistrate’s job to see through the lies and give us men the justice that we deserve.

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3 responses to “LETTER: Urgent plea for overhaul of broken Family Court System”

  1. How about you try using a condom? Or better yet, stop having children willy nilly with random women? How about you invest in a long-term relationship with a woman that is gainfully employed, with life goals and ambition? Maybe get married and plan a family then? If you pick up every Jane, Sue and Mary indiscriminately, then this will be your story! How about some restraint? How about some common sense? How about some foresight? You have only yourself to blame for your present predicament!🤷

  2. Men got justice and freedom…Wear a condom. Illprepareness for parenthood is no excuse for parenting a child that will later be subjected to court hearings.

    Men can reduced this traumatic consequences by taking control…stop being a sperm donor.

    In addition, the author should not expect any forthcoming news from a dysfunctional administration on such matters.

  3. Man along with the two previous responses, you should try chose your women more carefully. As you said some women are devious, so the onus is on you to chose wisely. Furthermore, the Magistrates decisons can be challenged, so do your research and or get a good attorney.

REQUEST FOR EXPRESSIONS OF INTEREST

(CONSULTING SERVICES – INDIVIDUAL SELECTION)

 

OECS MSME Guarantee Facility Project

Loan No.: IDA-62670, IDA-62660, IDA-62640, IBRD-88830, IDA-62650

Assignment Title: Senior Operating Officer (SOO)

Reference No. KN-ECPCGC-207852-CS-INDV

 

The Governments of Antigua and Barbuda, Commonwealth of Dominica, Grenada, St. Lucia and St. Vincent and the Grenadines have received financing in the amount of US$10 million equivalent from the World Bank towards the cost of establishing a partial credit guarantee scheme, and they intend to apply part of the proceeds to payments for goods, and consulting services to be procured under this project. 

The consultant will serve as the “Senior Operating Officer (SOO)” for the ECPCGC and should possess extensive knowledge of MSME lending with some direct experience lending to Micro, small and medium-sized businesses, knowledge of the internal control processes necessary for a lending operation and the ability to design and implement risk mitigation procedures. The ideal candidate should possess an Undergraduate Degree from a reputable college or university, preferably in Business, Accounting, Banking or related field, with a minimum of 5 years’ experience in lending, inclusive of MSME lending. The initial employment period will be for two years on a contractual basis. Renewal of the contract will be subject to a performance evaluation at the end of the contractual period. The assignment is expected to begin on September 30th, 2021.  The consultant will report directly to the Chief Executive Officer of the ECPCGC.

The detailed Terms of Reference (TOR) for the assignment can be viewed by following the attached link below. 

 

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The Eastern Caribbean Partial Credit Guarantee Corporation (ECPCGC) now invites eligible “Consultants” to indicate their interest in providing the Services. Interested Consultants should provide information demonstrating that they have:

  • An Undergraduate Degree from a reputable college or university, preferably in Business, Finance, Banking or related field; and
  • Minimum of 5 years’ experience in MSME lending. Applicants should also have:
  • The ability to design and implement risk management procedures 
  • Extensive knowledge of MSME lending with some direct experience lending to small and medium-sized businesses
  • Extensive knowledge of MSME banking operations
  • Knowledge of the internal controls necessary for a lending operation and the ability to design and implement risk management procedures
  • Experience developing and presenting information in public, including responding to questions in real-time
  • Experience lending to MSMEs located in the ECCU
  • Knowledge of marketing and communicating with the MSME sector
  • Ability to draft procedures to be used in a lending operation
  • Familiarity with the mechanics of a loan guarantee program
  • Exceptional written, oral, interpersonal, and presentation skills, and
  • Proficiency in the use of Microsoft Office suite.

The attention of interested Individual Consultants is drawn to Section III, Paragraphs 3.14, 3.16, and 3.17 of the World Bank’s Procurement Regulations for IPF Borrowers July 2016, [revised November 2017] (“Procurement Regulations”), setting forth the World Bank’s policy on conflict of interest. A Consultant will be selected in accordance with the Approved Selection Method for Individual Consultants set out in the clause 7.34 of the World Bank Procurement Regulations for IPF Borrowers. 

 

Further information can be obtained at the address below during office hours 0800 to 1700 hours:

Eastern Caribbean Partial Credit Guarantee Corporation

Brid Rock, Basseterre,

St. Kitts.

Expressions of interest must be delivered in a written form by e-mail by August 11th, 2021, to [email protected]

 

For further information, please contact:

Carmen Gomez-Trigg                                                            Bernard Thomas

Chief Executive Officer                                                          Chief Financial Officer

Tel: 868-620-8144                                                                  Tel: 869-765-2385

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